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Why This Matrimony Was So Unholy That The Divorce Became The Divine Intervention

An abusive arranged marriage motivated by dowry  – the self respecting woman in this story didn’t stand for it and filed for divorce. The following is a true story, although the names of the characters have been changed. “How much is your budget?” asked Mr. Prakash. “I can arrange for 4 wedding functions, with an expenditure …

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Indian DIL Is Not The Evil Bahu From Baghban If She Wants To Live Separately!

Remember that evil bahu from Baghban who was all set to destroy the Great Indian Family? In reality, the daughter-in-law in many Indian households is forced to fight for her privacy and her very dignity. “Demand for privacy by a married woman after she enters her matrimonial home cannot be dubbed as cruelty towards the husband to grant …

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Why Is It That A Country So Obsessed With Marriage Does Not Recognize The Need For It At Old Age?

Why is it that the needs of the elderly, especially their need for companionship, is made invisible by society? Why can’t they remarry in their old age? I had just returned from Seattle, from my best friend Sandra’s mother’s wedding. It was the first time that I had attended an American wedding. I was excited …

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Behind Every Superwoman Lies…An Inconsiderate And Selfish Man!

It is time we stopped worshipping the superwoman. She became a superwoman because she is married to a super archaic, super manipulative, super selfish idiot. “Bittu Bhaiya’s wife is a superwoman!” “Don’t you remember her? She comes up randomly in all conversations. Your husband’s chachi’s mausi’s grandson Bittu bhaiya’s wife – The Ideal Bahu!  Everybody …

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Why You Should Not Sponsor Your Son-In-Law And His Wedding

Why do women of so many educated families succumb to dowry harassment? As a society, why are we failing to empower women, despite the education, and potential financial independence? “They tortured her, we kept sending her back”: Family distraught after CA killed in TN over dowry! “My daughter was harassed for dowry” – says mother of techie found dead in Bengaluru! …

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